The ideal conversation
Avoid interrogations. A first date should be a dance, not a job interview. Share light anecdotes, listen actively, and maintain eye contact. Ask about passions, not just about work.
Gay first date etiquette and protocol
Who pays the bill?
In the gay world, the norm is usually splitting the bill or the inviter paying. The most elegant move is to offer to pay or split without drama. If the date was great, you can say: "This one's on me, you get the next one."
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