Coming out and dating

Your pace is sacred

You are not obligated to reveal your entire process on the first date. Share what makes you feel comfortable. However, being honest about your level of visibility helps find someone who is on a similar wavelength.

Handling visibility

If one is fully out and the other is not, tensions can arise. Talk about which places to frequent and how to introduce yourselves to others. Mutual respect for each other's personal process is fundamental for success.

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Experts in emotional wellbeing and safety within the LGBTQ+ community.

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